vacations

Nando has 1 week left of vacation this year that he will be taking in the middle of october. His first week off was in March and we went away for Ninas bday. His second week off was in August where we did more local things and stayed home. Now, our dilemma is if we should go away or not. Of course we want to, but there are 2 other factors. Our anniversary is in November and we usually go away for the weekend and the other factor is we want to go away for a weekend in december to see disney for the holidays and go to ice ( this expedition walk through dome made of carved ice) soo is going away 3 times too much right before christmas, and the answer is yes!! So, should we not go away for our anniversary and go away in October or just go more all out for the December trip....too many ideas but I don't really know what to do...Of course these are all mini getaways, so maybe I can find some great deals..what does every1 else think..to vacation? or not to vacation?